"The word love is really overused. Love is often confused with passion, infatuation, and/or comfort. You've gotten used to being with this person, so you think you love them. You'd miss them if they were gone, so you think you love them. This person makes you all sorts of horny, so you think you love them.
Love is a mature feeling. Love is when you care more about the other person's feelings than you do your own. Love is blind trust in your partner because they've earned it. Love is when you're willing to sacrifice your own ego to let your partner win a fight - even though they're wrong. If you're both in love, these sacrifices and trusts will run both ways. If only one partner is making this commitment, it's more of an abusive relationship. It has to be a two-way street.
So, all of that being said, do you really believe that the two of you are in love?"
Read this online and thought it was worth a thought.
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